Are you a woman worth fighting for? Many women would say yes. But if social media, rampant feminism, and videos online are true, I would say many women are not worth fighting for. But you can become a woman worth fighting for. Before you come at me with pitchforks, let me explain further. Most women want men who will take care of them, provide, protect, be that knight in shining armor, but then those same women will talk about not needing a man and do very little to give back. They make excuses on how they’re so great, but bring very little to the table, and their man is so horrible. The spouse shaming videos are in abundance on the internet. But let’s take a deeper look at this.
Excuses For Man Hate
Most women detest men nowadays and they validate it because of a past hurt, because of past sins of men, or because it is taught from childhood. For years, since the 1970s, women were taught they didn’t need men and men were brow beaten for their masculinity which led to the rise of the passive, weak, dangerous men that no woman wants, but somehow usually ends up with at least one point in her life.
Weak men are dangerous men. On the other flip of the coin, feminism has taught women “you are perfect the way you are and don’t need to change” and so they don’t. And anyone who says otherwise is a “hater” or is a misogynist or has internal misogyny. They bring very little to the table and then wonder why no one is willing to light up for them.
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Most Women Put Very Little Into Their Husbands
Even feminism aside, I’ve seen women in person put very little effort into their husbands and when their husbands don’t bend over backwards for the nothing they’re receiving, they get mad and resentful. Isn’t it odd?
How we as women demand so much from men. Men really are simple creatures, and don’t require all that much. But as women for some reason, doing the bare minimum seems too much, and then we expect the world.
Women Have Forsaken Biblical Femininity
Now don’t get me wrong there are great women who do give their all, who have been taken advantage of. I’m not saying that. But women are not these perfect creatures they claim to be. In fact, studies show that women are more likely to be abusers. And of course there are articles making excuses for why that is.
Women have forsaken biblical femininity to embrace their curse, no not the child birth part, but the part of wanting to rule over her husband and not being able to. Unfortunately, because Adam was passive in the garden, so are men are allowing their wives to rule over them. It doesn’t work.
Men Are Leaders And We Have Different Gender Roles
Men are to be leaders. And part of the problem is they are no longer leading. Women wouldn’t be so out of control if that were the case. That being said, in a relationship a man should be trying to date you, and make you feel desired, and beautiful throughout courting and throughout marriage. However, like all humans, they are just that, human. If they work hard all day, come home to a messy house, a screaming angry harpy of a wife, have kids thrown at them the moment they walk in, a honey do list any time they sit down to relax for 5 minutes, I can’t blame them for not wanting to be around you.
Now, because of our society, you can argue the 50/50 rule that you both work so everything should be 100% even down to the hour. And yes, I know a man who argued this, but nothing will ever be 50/50 completely and men and women have different roles. You expect him to protect you and your family? That’s an added role. Do you do more cleaning? That’s an added role, seems pretty fair to me.
Women Are Unhappy
And let’s be honest, women are unhappiest today than ever before. And I believe it’s because we 1. have turned away from God, 2. thrown out our purpose and the desires God put in our hearts, 3. and believed the lies of the enemy. So many women are focused on the world, being a “boss babe” and yet… are serving a boss that doesn’t typically care about them. Happy to serve for money while forsaking their families in the long run. Not to mention, men and women are different and we’re built for different things and for some reason we have forced ourselves to compete with men.
Women nowadays will put their effort into everything but their homes and their families and then wonder why their husbands show no interest. Wonder why their kids are running amok. They wonder how their kids grew up to be unhappy and lawless.
And dads and husbands you also need to step up in this department. Y’all need to stop with your passivity and lead. You also have to fight for your wife. But my focus is women right now.
Put Effort Into The Things You Want To See Blossom
Most women are not worth fighting for as they are, but they can become someone that a man wants to fight for. When you think of women in stories that are worth fighting for, that men go to war for, they’re loving, beautiful, kind, gracious women. Not many women can claim these things. And I know that sounds brutal, it’s something I had to learn myself.
I had to learn to put deliberate effort into my husband and my relationship and my home. I learned that money, while nice, isn’t the world. A job doesn’t define me or my worth. Learning that God comes first, then my husband and me, and then kids, and everyone else.
I had to become a woman worth fighting for. And does my husband always take care of all my wants and needs? No. Am I disappointed at times? Yes. But I give him grace and forgiveness, because like me he is human.
A Woman Worth Fighting For Embraces Femininity And Is Transformed By God
A woman worth fighting for looks different for everyone. But a feminine woman who brings out the masculinity in her man will almost always be fought for. And before you say anything, femininity isn’t painted toes, perfect makeup, and the latest hair style. I don’t do any of that, but a woman who embraces the traits of the Bible, submits to God and then her husband, and uses her gifts to take care of those around her are worth fighting for.
Ugly spirited, hateful, resentful, bitter, boss babe, don’t need no man, attitudes have to go. That is the curse of Eve you’re embracing. You can do great things without being or competing with a man, you can do great things without being hateful, and you can be worth fighting for by your husband letting God transform you as a woman.
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Do you think you’re a woman worth fighting for?
